‘Make Your Own Christmas Miracle’ – How I Got Through the Holidays as an International Student
The city is bright and festive, and the Christmas tunes are blasting from every speaker. It’s impossible to not feel your best but having been an international Masters student in the UK, I also know the hidden feeling of dread as December arrives. All your friends have been planning for Christmas for a long time whereas you’ve found yourself in a completely new situation. It is overwhelming at first, with so much happening around you but not being sure how much of it you can experience.
You shouldn’t worry if your Christmas looks a little bit different to your housemates. Whether it’s a massive Christmas tree which takes up your whole living room or a cosy Christmas dinner for one, every kind of Christmas is equally special. I’m sharing some things I did to make the festivities my own (in case you’re looking for ideas!) and keep the Christmas cheer alive. I have also included a special tip at the end (if you’re studying in the UK) as a little Christmas present!
A Christmas of firsts
If, like me, you didn’t really celebrate Christmas before moving abroad then you’ll be met with a number of firsts so embrace them. Don’t miss the first time to see the Christmas light switch on in your city, or tackle cooking a turkey, or drinking hot chocolate at the market. But I suggest you take it to the next step. Try something completely new and exciting! For me, it was trying home-cooked Polish food for the first time. It doesn’t matter if it’s not Christmas-themed, just take the opportunity to do it and then you’ll always have something to remember this Christmas by.
A very special tradition
It’s never too late to start a Christmas tradition. Mine is to watch Home Alone 1 and 2 on Christmas Day. The idea is that you continue it each year you celebrate which gives you something to look forward to as Christmas rolls around next time. It is also a lovely way to participate in the festivities in your own unique way. This time next year, you’ll know exactly what you’ll be up to!
Bring a personal touch to the festivities
There is no one way to celebrate Christmas. If you find yourself overwhelmed trying to meet expectations, know that it is okay to take a step back. Christmas is about doing the things that make you happy. Don’t be afraid to bring a little bit of your culture to the celebrations and make Christmas feel like home! I swapped the traditional Christmas dessert for a special Indian dessert that my grandmother would make us every year in the winter.
If need be, do it yourself
You might find yourself without company on some days. That shouldn’t mean you cannot enjoy Christmas on your own. As much as Christmas is about spending time with others, it can also mean spending time with yourself. I went down the route of an at-home spa but there is plenty you can do around the city as well. Go watch one of the special Christmas screenings at a nearby cinema or just take a day strolling about the Christmas market.
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As promised, my no. 1 tip to survive the holidays in the UK…
Shop for groceries before Christmas Eve!
If you’re planning on spending Christmas in the UK, it is important to know that most of the country (including department stores) are closed on the day of Christmas and the day after (also called Boxing Day). So, don’t forget to get your shopping done before or, like me, you might be left with no milk for your morning cup of tea on Boxing Day.
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